Finding Connection and Community: Why I Love Serving as an Usher At The First Unitarian Church Of Dallas
The moment I step through the doors of the First Unitarian Church of Dallas (FUCD) on a Sunday morning, I feel a shift. It’s not just the beautiful architecture or the sense of peace; it’s the buzz of anticipation and the warmth of the people. And for me, that feeling is magnified because I get to be a part of creating that welcoming atmosphere—I serve as an usher.
Some people might think of ushering as a mundane task: handing out orders of service, pointing to an empty pew, or collecting the offering. While those are certainly part of the job, the experience for me goes so much deeper. It’s one of the most rewarding ways I’ve found to connect with my church community and live out our Unitarian Universalist principles.
The Power of the First Hello
Have you ever walked into a new place, feeling a bit unsure, and had a smile and a simple greeting immediately put you at ease? As an usher, I get to be that smile.
It’s often the very first interaction a newcomer has with our church, and I believe in the power of that moment. A simple “Welcome, we’re glad you’re here!” sets the tone for their entire experience. It allows me to express, in a very tangible way, the radical hospitality that FUCD strives for. For regulars, it’s a chance to offer a brief moment of connection before the service begins—a quick check-in that says, “I see you.”
More Than Just a Task
While the visible tasks are straightforward, the heart of ushering is about service and mindfulness. It’s being present. It’s walking a little slower, paying attention to the person who looks lost, or making sure a parent with a stroller knows where the elevator is. It requires a quiet kind of empathy—anticipating needs before they are voiced.
- It keeps me grounded: I’m not just sitting and passively receiving the service; I am actively engaged in making it happen. It transforms me from an observer to a participant.
- It deepens my community ties: I get to know members and frequent visitors on a different level. It’s a fantastic way to meet new people without the pressure of a formal social setting. The other ushers, the ministers, and the staff become part of a team working toward a common goal: a successful, moving Sunday service.
- It fulfills the call to service: Our faith emphasizes action and justice. While ushering might seem small compared to political advocacy or organizing a service project, it is fundamental. Creating a space of peace and welcome is, in itself, an act of justice and compassion.
If you are looking for a way to get more involved at FUCD, or anywhere you feel a connection, I highly recommend finding a way to serve at the door. It’s where the spirit of community truly begins. It’s not just about what you give; it’s about the profound sense of belonging and connection you receive in return.
What’s your favorite way to volunteer or connect with your spiritual community? Share your thoughts in the comments below!